Classic recipe for real buttercream frosting that uses grassfed butter to maximize the nutrient density of this sweet topping for cakes and cupcakes.

Bet you never thought that a birthday cake could be nutrient-dense!
Well, it can, and your kids will be smacking their lips and loving every crumb on their plates!
When my children have a birthday, I make traditional butter frosting for their cake with deep yellow grassfed butter (preferably from raw cream or, at least, regular pasteurized cream (not ultrapasteurized).
Remember the video lesson/recipe on how to make raw butter?
I used that exact container of raw butter just a few days later to make nutrient-dense buttercream frosting shown in the picture above for my son’s birthday party.
If your kids won’t eat much butter, a lovely homemade cake slathered with butter frosting is a great way to get a bunch of this sacred food into them. My children most enjoy it atop devil’s food cake.
You’re going to make a cake anyway, so why not make it as full of nutrients as possible?
Let me also share that butter frosting made with pastured, raw butter has a flavor so amazing it can’t be described, only experienced!
You can even make homemade powdered sugar with a whole sweetener like coconut or cane jaggery, sucanat, or palm sugar. Although very healthy, I do not recommend date sugar as it does not dissolve well in frosting recipes.
What about if you wish to buy cake frosting? Unfortunately, I have not found a good brand to recommend. Even organic frosting brands that I’ve vetted have undesirable additives such as fake “natural flavors” and do not have the nutrient density of real buttercream made with actual butter!
*This recipe makes enough frosting for two-layer 8- or 9-inch cakes or 18–24 cupcakes.

Real Buttercream Frosting
Classic recipe for real buttercream frosting that uses grassfed butter to maximize the nutrient density of this sweet topping for cakes and cupcakes.
Ingredients
- 2/3 cup grassfed butter softened
- 5-6 cups powdered sugar sifted
- 1/3 cup whole milk preferably grassfed
- 2 tsp vanilla extract
Instructions
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Thoroughly powderize whole sweetener of choice (sucanat, jaggery or coconut sugar) in a food processor or blender, sift and measure into a bowl until desired quantity is reached and set aside.
If you cannot get the sugar to powderize sufficiently or do not care for the taste of molasses, use sifted organic powdered white sugar instead.
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In a large glass bowl, whip butter until creamy and fluffy. Gradually beat in 3 cups of the powdered sugar.
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Slowly beat in the milk and vanilla. Beat in the remaining sugar and add additional milk to obtain the desired spreading consistency to the butter frosting.
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Spread the butter frosting on the cake as desired or just enjoy it off the spoon!
Recipe Notes
Never use nonorganic powdered sugar in North America as it will almost certainly contain GMO beet sugar.









Isn’t white sugar refined sugar that gives you a sugar crash?
Any sweetener will do this … even maple syrup. But, the frosting has lots of healthy fat in it which mitigates the blood sugar effects considerably.
Nice and flavorful! I did 5 cups sugar, 2 of coconut and 3 of white. That coconut sugar makes it soooo rich. I also added 3 egg yolks being inspired from a previous persons comment. Hoping it tastes good on the grain free paleo chocolate cake I made!!
Just made this for the family. Holy cow it’s amazing! My picky kids loved it. I made it with the butter frosting.
Sadly I have to say this was a horrible waste of ingredients for me. Thank goodness I didn’t make a huge batch but still wasted grass fed butter, raw milk and a cup of sucanat… I don’t know how this could taste different from the posted recipe because I followed it exactly (powdered sucanat in the vitamix too) – it was GROSS. The texture was perfect but the sucanat is so sharp tasting it was like eating straight molasses. Even tried to turn it chocolate, but ended up being a waste of good chocolate too… 😐
Wow, sorry you found the whole powdered sugar too strong tasting. You can certainly use organic white powdered sugar next time.
Could you add a block of cream cheese to the frosting to make it a cream cheese frosting?
My grandma used to make something just like this, but she would add some espresso to it and it made a ‘coffee frosting’.. IT WAS AMAZING!
Holy CR*P! Is that sugar for real? That’s considered health food?
Many have already said it, but just so you know there are more wanting it, I would LOVE to see that cake recipe!
Also, in Nourishing Traditions, Sally does not recommend sucanat, but rapadura instead. I have not been able to find rapadura. Is it available anywhere that you know of or should I just use sucanat or the others you listed in the recipe?