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The top three herbs (for her AND for him) that promote healthy conception by safely and naturally stimulating hormones for optimal fertility.

It’s no secret that couples these days are having an increasingly difficult time conceiving.
Even young women in their twenties who should have no trouble in this area are sometimes finding it a challenge to let nature take its course.
In a concerning turn of events, the White House issued a warning in October 2025 about declining US fertility, labeling the situation a “national security threat”. (1)
When considering how to address the problem, a healthy pre-pregnancy and pregnancy diet is clearly a critical part of unassisted, natural reproduction with eating traditional foods known for millennia to promote fertility, Job #1.
It is a lesser-known fact that fertility herbs can play a huge role in this area. Ancestral societies knew this and employed herbal assistance as needed.
It is often a simple and very straightforward process to facilitate pregnancy using these safe and time tested plants to balance female and male hormones and libido.
Fertility herbs are also helpful in nourishing the body and female reproductive system, which in turn helps to relax the entire nervous system to facilitate conception.
Do you know how doctors are often prone to say to couples having trouble conceiving that the woman just “needs to relax”?
While this is an irritating comment for any woman to hear, using fertility herbs in a smart and strategic way might help this happen by doing exactly that!
Best Fertility Herbs
Note that these powerful fertility herbs work most effectively in the absence of any structural problems within the reproductive system.
Hence, it is best to discuss the resolution of issues such as endometriosis, fibroids or blocked fallopian tubes with your practitioner first if you suspect an issue in this area.
Stinging Nettle
Nettle is my most favorite all around fertility herb.
Not only does it tone and nourish the uterus, but it also promotes the strengthening of the kidneys and adrenal glands. If you are or have ever been a coffee drinker, this herb is for you!
One, two, or even more cups per day of this high mineral tea (suggested brand I’ve used for decades) which is also loaded with chlorophyll (a safe, gentle detoxifier) for several months goes a long way toward preparing a woman’s body for pregnancy and sustaining the embryo once conception occurs.
Nettle tea is also fantastic for preparing for the baby’s birth as it is extremely high in Vitamin K1, which allows Mom peace of mind knowing that her newborn baby’s blood will already contain an ample amount as small amounts DO pass the placenta (no need for the toxic Vitamin K shot at birth).
Continuing to drink nettle tea while breastfeeding promotes successful lactation and a copious milk supply as well!
Hint: Nettle facilitates a smooth, symptom-free menopause too! It is helpful for all stages of life, as it turns out!
A nettle infusion also helps with allergy relief from seasonal pollen issues as a bonus because it is a natural anti-histamine.
Red Clover
Red clover is an excellent fertility herb primarily due to the high amounts of calcium and magnesium. These two minerals are believed to be of high importance in affecting a woman’s ability to conceive.
Red clover (suggested brand) contains every single trace element needed by the glandular system.
As such, this alkalizing herb is probably the single most effective plant used for balancing of the conception hormones.
Balancing the body acid/alkaline pH and thereby the uterus pH goes a long way toward favoring conception.
Brew your red clover tea along with peppermint or another type of mint if you prefer. This acts as a sexual stimulant.
To make a powerful infusion of these herbs in combination, follow the following steps:
- Measure one ounce of red clover and a teaspoon of peppermint. Organic, loose tea brands are recommended.
 - Steep in one quart of hot filtered water for 4 hours.
 - Ensure the lid is tightly fastened to contain the steam.
 - Drink this mixture as desired once it has cooled down.
 - Refrigerate in a glass jar with a secure lid for up to 4 days.
 
Red Raspberry
Red Raspberry leaves, particularly the wild kind, are very high in calcium. Like Nettle and Red Clover, Red Raspberry leaves serve as a soothing uterine tonic and a very effective fertility herb.
The fertility promoting effects of red raspberry (suggested brand) are enhanced in combination with other herbs, particularly Red Clover.
To make a powerful infusion of this herb, steep 1/2 ounce red raspberry and 1/2 ounce red clover in one quart of hot water for 4 hours. Refrigerate the unused portion after cooling.
With each cup of this herbal infusion, add 5-15 drops of either dong quai root tincture (suggested brand) or false unicorn root tincture (suggested brand).
Either of these tinctures (choose one or alternate) will further enhance the fertility effects of the red raspberry.
Conception Herbs for Him
Note that the fertility issues could be on his side. In that situation, consider using the benefits of maca to assist with improving sperm count and motility.
Scientific research has shown that maca achieves this without increasing testosterone levels, unlike some other male supplements.
*Note that eating a dozen oysters once or even twice a week can do wonders for improving testosterone, promoting optimal male fertility and sperm quality as well.
Lunaception
The process of encouraging ovulation using the power of light is called lunaception. This technique works very well when combined with fertility promoting herbs.
To establish the proper timing for ovulation, follow this routine.
- Leave a light on in your bedroom for 3 consecutive nights about midway through your cycle.
 - All other nights should be total darkness. Get bedroom blackout curtains if necessary.
 - Your cycle will naturally regulate itself for ovulation on the nights when the light is on.
 
You and your Sweetie can take it from here!
(1) White House Issues Warning Over US Fertility Rate
(2) Wise Woman Herbal for the Childbearing Year, by Susun S. Weed
(3) The Garden of Fertility, by Katie Singer









Funny, I used all those and others too for a year and 9 months with no success. It wasn’t until I added Shatavari that I got pregnant. I mean the first cycle on the stuff! I wish there was more known about it and that I hadn’t waited a whole year to try it!
Hi Shawnicy,
I just need to ask you something and that is how did you got pregnant using Shatavari? Like how did you used it or did you add any other herbs with it and did you used Sahatavari in capsule or herbs? It will really help me so much, I’m 41 yrs old no kids and trying to conceive for the past 14 yrs and I’m willing to try anything natural. I did got pregnant one time last year but after 6 weeks I got a miscarriage. I will appreciated your reply so much thank you.
Funny, I used all those and others too for a year and 9 months with no success. It wasn’t until I added Shatavari that I got pregnant. I mean the first cycle on the stuff! I wish there was more known about it and that I hadn’t waited a whole year to try it!
Thanks!
Ha! I guessed all three. Very good ones indeed.
You mentioned that the first herb is good for breastfeeding women, but what about the other 2?
It also doesn’t hurt to get a COMPLETE (fT4/fT3 too) thyroid panel checked! http://www.sheknows.com/health-and-wellness/articles/807574/infertility-is-your-thyroid-to-blame
Three of my favorites + a chemical free diet.
Jesus J Hernandez Roldan, I thought you might wanna check this out…
Allison Lippe Anderson you never know what can help…just passing along info
Hi
I just wanted to ask, we have just started our first IVF so I am currently on hormone injections. Will this tea benefit me or will it mess around with the process? We’ve been trying for 3 years now and, in the last year and a half I went onto real food, organic, pasture fed food and cut ALL chemicals out of my life so my hormones are actually pretty good. It’s just my egg count that is low because I’m 38 now.
I want to do whatever I can to make this IVF a success. I’m so worried about doing anything that might interfere with the process. I haven’t taken so much as an aspirin for the last year or so so the injections are making me VERY nervous. But I really want to improve my chances as much as possible so I’ve bought the tea, I’m being very strict with my diet AND I’m doing the hormones. Will they all work well together or will the tea affect the conventional medicine? I’m SO scared this doesn’t work because it’s costing us a lot of money to do it.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
Melanie