When ignorance about breastfeeding coincides with an irrational fear of terrorists, what do you get?
A very nasty scene at a ritzy New York Country Club, that’s what!
This is exactly what Belgian diplomat Tom Neijens and his wife Roseline Remans discovered when they stopped by the Metropolis Country Club in White Plains, New York on June 8, 2013 and inquired about having lunch.
Club employees permitted the family to dine on the terrace despite the fact that they weren’t members, whereupon Remans began to discreetly breastfeed her daughter Luka at the table.
Neijens, first secretary of the Belgium Mission to the UN, told the New York Post that a female employee of the club quickly interrupted Roseline’s perfectly legal and proper feeding of her baby with this sharp rebuke:
“Please leave immediately, you are disturbing the members!”
When Neijens protested and said it would only take a few minutes, the female staffer insisted that Remans finish in the restroom.
Understandably incredulous at the blatant ignorance on display at such a high end establishment, Mr. Neijens inquired why a baby would be asked to have lunch in the restroom when adults are not.
The Greenburgh Police Department arrived minutes later with Detective Scott Harding apparently yelling, “Close the doors!” with two other diners ordered to leave the terrace.
Mr. Neijens described the chaotic scene as something straight out of a Western movie with the officer walking around like John Wayne with “one hand on his gun, one hand on his Taser.”
The officer warned the couple that they were trespassing despite the fact that country club staff had given them specific permission to dine. He also said that some fearful members thought Mr. Neijens’ black backpack indicated they were terrorists.
Most laughable if not actually true, is what the officer came out with next when a tearful Ms. Remans asked why terrorists would breastfeed at a ritzy club:
“In Sri Lanka, babies are used by terrorists.”
Well, you learn something new every day, don’t you?
Attention all breastfeeding mothers. Your milk engorged breasts are actually considered weapons of mass destruction by law enforcement authorities. That liquid is NOT food for your baby. It is actually highly explosive material that could detonate at any time, sparking a chain of events identified by the media as bona fide terrorist activity.
Detective Harding quickly backed off his ridiculous posturing when Mr. Neijens revealed his State Department issued identification.
He dismissed his over the top behavior by explaining that the club had received terrorist threats in the past.
Despite the fact that they were doing nothing illegal or improper and possessed proper identification, the couple was still escorted off the premises via the back door.
A few days later, Mr Neijens sent an e-mail demanding an apology from Country Club general manager Tracy Fraus and assistant general manager Audra Vaccari.
“I am deeply worried about your staff if they cannot distinguish between a European couple looking for a quiet place to breast-feed a baby and suicide terrorists carrying a backpack.”
Lt. B.J. Ryan, a spokesman for the Greenburgh Police Department, labeled the incident as a simple “cultural misunderstanding.”
Ahem. On behalf of breastfeeding mothers everywhere, I beg to differ.
Breasts are not “cultural” and there is no “misunderstanding” their true purpose. They are the universal instrument for optimal feeding of babies.
Not “boob grenades”.
Hard to believe the terrorism handbook didn’t cover this point properly.
Sarah, The Healthy Home Economist
Sources:
Belgian diplomat booted from golf club, treated “like terrorists” over wife’s breastfeeding
Couple “treated like terrorists” over breastfeeding and backpack at ritzy restaurant
Breastfeeding only takes a little time, stupid is forever
This is where I draw the line about my affection for law enforcement. This guy must have thought he was Dirty Harry. Too stupid. i hope these people go to court over this.
lol the look on the little baby girl’s face is like, “How can people that stupid manage to keep breathing?”
I apologize for this being off topic, but I can use some quick advice and didn’t know where to ask.
I am devasted because by young son will be having a root canal on his permanent molar. Believe me, I have tried too persuade my husband to give me a chance to heal it. But he thinks that is looney talk. We are a raw milk, fclo/hvbo family. So this was a huge shock. I realize now that my mistake was not doing sealants and having to many grains and processed junk.
So my question is, if anyone can help. What can I do toJ protect him fom all the toxins from surgery and recovery afterwards? Does anyone know how long to wait until he can oil pull? I gave him some benonite clay just now and will do that after the procedure as well. And also I will have him soak in an Epsom salt bath if he feels up to it later. I have bone broth made and ready. ANY other advice would be good. I am really scared for him but doing my best to not show it.
sounds like you need to follow your instincts on this one and not back down. do a thorough job of presenting the risks and dangers of root canals to your husband. and ask yourself, does he really need a root canal, or is the dentist just trying to make a buck? just because the dentist said one thing, don’t go into shock mode. get a few more opinions. see a biological dentist.
The teenager in me thinks that line would have been funnier if it read, “boobie grenades.”
We are living in a Bizarro world. This is just totally insane.
Wish it wasn’t an exclusive country club. We should all show up and have a nurse-in!
More and more, the authorities in this country seem to be insane. This is like something out of the old Saturday night Live. The victims should see an attorney and consider their legal options.
On days when a toddler got too busy to nurse, I certainly felt like my boobs might explode!